What Does the Weight of Anxiety Feel Like?
If anxiety had a physical form, most people wouldn’t describe it as “nerves” — they’d describe it as pressure.
A tightness in the chest.
A heaviness in the stomach.
A buzzing in the mind you can’t turn off.
A sense that something is “off” even when nothing is wrong.
The weight of anxiety is unique because it’s both emotional and physical. It can sit on your shoulders like a tension you can’t shake, or it can drop into your gut like you’re bracing for impact. You may look calm on the outside while feeling like you’re carrying a 40-pound backpack internally.
For many people, anxiety feels like:
Constant “readiness” for danger
A sense of being overwhelmed before you even start
Difficulty relaxing, even during downtime
A nagging worry that you’re forgetting something important
A sense that your mind is speeding while your body feels tired
This weight is real. It affects your body, your emotional energy, and your ability to feel present. And you don’t have to carry it alone.
If you’re ready to understand your anxiety instead of fighting it, therapy can help you feel lighter again.